Hi friends! I hope everyone had a great weekend, I know we sure did! We were super busy with lots of family stuff in Chicago on Saturday. Back in August, at Madelyn’s birthday party, my SIL asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. I gladly accepted the offer and on Saturday we set out to look for some dresses. After trying on a few dresses, we found one that looked great on all of us.
This one was my favorite of all the dresses we tried on. It’s the perfect material for a June wedding, it looked great on everyone, and it was very comfortable. I can’t wait to see them in the actual color that the bride to be picked out!
We also celebrated Grandma Rita’s 90th birthday in Chicago. I’m amazed at Larry’s Grandma: not only does she still live by herself, but the woman drives and loves going to the casino She’s quite the little ball of fire!
On Sunday, we took the babes and walked around the mall for a little bit. I had some birthday money I wanted to spend and I also wanted to check out Williams-Sonoma to get a head start on my Thanksgiving Day prep:
I used this last year when I made my first Thanksgiving turkey and it went over very well. So, I’ll be using this again this year and in the future, until I get brave enough to venture out and try something new
After the mall, I came home and got ready for a baby shower for a girl at work. I was going to bring my little miss, but she was passed out on the ride home from the mall and didn’t even blink an eye when I took her out of her carseat and into her crib.
Speaking of Madelyn…this past week I bought her her first pair of boots! She didn’t know what to make of them at first and had a hard time figuring out how to walk in them. By the time I picked her up on Friday, she was walking all over in those things.
I die over the cuteness
Today, I finally made it out to my garden to plant some garlic. I hope I didn’t wait too long. The weather is supposed to be decent this week-nothing below freezing. Instead of planting 100 heads of garlic, like the previous owners did, I opted for 40 heads. I think that should be sufficient.
I’m really excited about gardening in 2014. I’ll definitely have more time to plan out what I want to plant back there. We are also in the process of transitioning half of our garden space back into the backyard. After assessing how much of it we used this past summer, we decided that 6 raised garden beds is just too much for us. If it was our only hobby, then maybe. And we’d like Madelyn to have a bigger yard area to play in than what we have now. Removing 3 of the beds would open up a ton of space and give us back a good chunk of our yard.
P.S. Does anyone have tips for growing beets? I planted a TON of those tiny seeds in July and I only got TWO beets! I don’t know if I planted them too late in the season or what, but it was very frustrating given how much time I spent doing it. The two beets that I did harvest ended up in a juice this past weekend. Apple, beet and ginger. YUM!
- Follow the marathon plan you’ve chosen. Bart & Hal know a thing or two about marathon training. It’s okay to move your long run around (doing it on Sunday instead of Saturday), but if you want to be successful, don’t skimp out on mileage.
- Get serious about nutrition. During marathon training, I was not a carb queen much to my surprise. I did eat relatively healthy but my breakfast before most of my workouts consisted of coffee, water and a banana. Post workout would be a protein shake. No good for those longer runs. The week before the marathon, I loaded up on the good carbs as best as I could. Next time I’ll plan out my pre & post run meals/protein & carb ratios out a little better.
- Have a hydration plan in place and use it on those long practice runs. Toward the end, I switched over to Endurolyte tablets by Hammer. I liked them because they were just little electrolyte capsules I could just chug with water or Gatorade and I didn’t have to worry about carrying chews or trying to suck down a gel packet. I used them a few times on my practice runs and my system worked well. However, you tend to forget about replenishing your electrolytes when you’re running the streets of Chicago, high on life. There were a few times when I’d pass by a water stop, chug my water and continue on my way without even giving my electrolytes a second thought. Do whatever you can to try and remember to get the proper nutrition in during the race.
- Don’t forget your sunglasses/visor/hat. The whole time I trained, I wore either my sunglasses or visor and low and behold, on race day I left both of them in hubs’ car. Don’t do that. Squinting is no fun, it causes headaches and wrinkles. The last thing you want to do is weave in and out of the course to get to the shadier spots. Which brings me to my next point.
- STUDY your race course and hug the corners as best you can. A few weeks prior to race day, Larry posted this article stating that if runners don’t hug the corners of the courses 36 turns, they could possibly add up to a half mile to their race.
- Set multiple goals for yourself. You never know what can happen on race day and if you only set one goal (i.e. a finish time) and you don’t achieve it, it will take away from the awesomeness that was just accomplished. Look back at your training. You had good days and not so great days. The same thing can happen when it comes to marathon time. Not to mention other things you can’t control. Like the weather. Or the sun. Goal #1 for me was just to finish. Goal #2 was to finish in under 5 hours. Goal #2 didn’t happen, but I did achieve my main goal and now, I can take everything I learned and put it into practice when it comes time for marathon numero 2.
- Write your name somewhere visible on yourself. I wish I would’ve done this!! I saw lots of people with iron ons, bright tape & black sharpie (if you don’t want to ruin a shirt), and people who wrote their names on their arm with sharpies. Strangers will call out your name and cheer you on during the race and it’s really motivating.
- ENJOY every single moment! The marathon was honestly the fastest 5 hours of my life. There will be times on the course when you’re on top of the world one mile and the next mile, you’re hating life, questioning your sanity and wondering why you thought this was a good idea. Then you’ll hear Ray Charles singing America the Beautiful as you approach the finish and realize that those few miles of agony were totally and utterly worth it.
The same day that I signed
my life away up for the 2013 Chicago Marathon, I also committed to fundraising with Team Salute. Salute Inc is an organization that helps out active duty military members, veterans and their families.
As most of you know I am a military mama by day and a blogger by night.
I joined the military when I was 18, left for basic training one month after high school graduation and I had no idea where it would take me in life or who I would meet along the way. Each experience and person has shaped me in some way and in the past 10 years of serving in the Air National Guard, I have earned my Bachelor’s degree in Journalism from UW-Milwaukee, I have been paid to travel to some very awesome places and the people I have met: not enough good words can be said about the people. The Guard is truly like a little family-and in my case, I spend more time during the week with my co-workers than I do my actual family.
When I chose to fundraise for Team Salute, I knew people at work would be very receptive I just wasn’t sure how receptive they would be. This was the first time I’ve ever fundraised this amount and I wasn’t sure what to expect. The amount of support I received from co-workers, family and friends has been overwhelming. When I got an e-mail notification of my first big donation from a fellow co-worker, my heart filled with gratitude and I got tears in my eyes.
Watching the donations come in the past few weeks has just been amazing. On Saturday, I surpassed my fundraising goal of $800 and I still have until Sunday, October 13th to raise money. This post isn’t a plug to get more money (although if you want to donate click here-it goes to a great cause!), I just simply wanted to say THANK YOU to everyone who has supported me in one way or another. Whether it was through a donation, words of encouragement, tidbits of advice or just simply listening to me go on about my marathon training-your support has been incredible and I am so lucky to have such wonderful people in my life.
Stay tuned: Later this week (FRIDAY!) I will be hosting a Giveaway on the blog! Check back here for the details Friday morning.
Homeownership kept us pretty busy this weekend. It was the first weekend we’ve been able to just futz around the house and get outside in the yard. We spent a lot of time at Home Depot and World Market.
When we bought our house, we inherited a TON of garden space.
I wasn’t joking. When I first saw the space I was overwhelmed and immediately wanted to convert it back to a yard. The only thing I’ve ever grown is a baby! Then, during our second walk through I thought, “Well maybe we’ll take out the first three and keep the three beds behind the garage.” After the previous owners accepted our offer, I met with the Mrs. and she informed me that the 100 heads of garlic were growing in one of the beds that I wanted to take out.
I finally got back there this week and saw the garlic starting to sprout. I got really excited and started to plan out what else I’m going to plant back there. I planted some carrots in the same bed as the garlic. I’m not sure of how they’re going to come out: those seeds are tiny! And I thought of a better way to plant them after I kind of just spread them around. The rest of the planting and gardening will resume after I get back home in the beginning of June.
Another project I wanted to get done before I left at the end of this month was the accent wall in our bedroom.
I used a wall stencil from Cutting Edge Stencils to transform our wall into this:
It was a really tedious job but I’m really happy with how it turned out. The color is Special Gray from Sherwin Williams. All the walls were painted with a matte paint and the accent wall was painted with a high gloss paint. I used the matte paint to go over the high gloss paint. I’m really glad I stuck with the same color. Unless you’re a stenciling expert, if you’re going to do this, I would recommend sticking with similar colors. There were a few little mistakes but it’s really hard to see them, which I’m very thankful for.
The very BEST part of my weekend came today when I was reunited with my sister. She’s been deployed for two months and we’re so happy to have her home. Madelyn has missed her auntie!
When Melissa and I found out the date and time of when she was scheduled to come home we decided to not tell my mom, but rather surprise her at work. Thankfully, everything fell into place and we were able to pull of an awesome surprise homecoming!
Welcome home to my sister and best friend! We have some wine dates to catch up on
Time seems to fly even faster when you have a child. This past weekend, I was putting away all of her clothes that she’s outgrown and I couldn’t believe how small she started out. When I look at her now, it’s hard to remember her as a 7 pounder. We took her to her 4 month check up and all is well. She’s in the 80th percentile for weight and 70th for height.
Sleep. Since baby girl’s been 3 months she’s been averaging about 10 hours of sleep a night. This is great, except the new bed time has moved from 9:30-10pm to 8 pm. What does this mean for mama? Getting up at about 6:30 am on my days off. It’s hard to be mad about it when you’re waking up to the happiest baby ever.
Eat. Two weeks ago, I gave her formula for the first time because I didn’t have enough breast milk stored up. We gave her a milk-based formula and the daycare lady told me that she had been unusually gassy. For the most part, I try to stay away from dairy because it’s pretty hard on my stomach, so she hasn’t gotten a lot of exposure to it. I told the nurse about the gas and she said it could be the dairy in the formula. I try to breastfeed and pump as much as I can on the weekends to help increase my supply for the week. Even though she’s intrigued by the act of sitting down and eating dinner, our doctor told us to hold off giving her solids until she’s at least 6 months. The longer I keep her on just milk, the better. She said that if she’s sleeping fine and seems satisfied after eating, there’s no need to rush it. I was happy to hear this. On one hand, I’m really looking forward to that stage and watching her have fun with food, but on the other hand it’s just a reminder on how quickly she’s growing up.
Play. Madelyn loves rolling over from her front to her back. I’m still waiting for the feet in the mouth moment. She knows that they’re there, but she hasn’t made the connection. She’s a really good supported sitter and can hold herself up pretty well before she falls over. She prefers to stand and can pull herself up like a champ. Madelyn is a little mover and a shaker. When she is put on her stomach, she tries so hard to crawl and clearly gets frustrated when she doesn’t go anywhere. I have a feeling that when she does start crawling we’re going to get a run for our money.
What she loves. She still can’t get enough of those fingers. Her Winnie the Pooh activity bouncer-we put her in it for the first time yesterday and even though she’s still not tall enough (we prop her feet with a pillow), she has a blast in that thing. She even knows how to turn herself around in it.
Another big love? The Christmas tree lights! Here’s a video of her babbling away when I laid her under the tree for a photo sesh This is pretty much how she is every single day. My heart melts.
Happy 4 months to my baby girl! I love you more than you’ll ever know.
One thing I’ve learned since going back to work full-time? Weekly blogging with a newborn is pretty impossible for me. My day starts out at 4am: I pump, get ready for work, get little miss up and ready for daycare, feed her, make myself some coffee and we’re out the door at 5:50ish a.m. I drop her off at daycare around 6 and am at work by 6:30 am. I work 10 hour days and am lucky enough to have an hour a day to workout-so really it ends up being about a 9 hour day. I leave work between 4:30-4:45pm to pick up Madelyn from daycare and I get home around 5pm. When I get home, I get settled in, make dinner, spend time with my husband & baby and start our bedtime routine around 8:30-9. I’m usually in bed around 9:45-10. Sleep & repeat. It’s a very long day but it’s worth the 3 day weekend I get to enjoy
Since my last post we’ve had some pretty eventful things happening here:
1. Madelyn came down with a cold and got so congested that we ended up at an Urgent Care. The little girl had such a hard time breathing it scared the bejeezus out of Larry and me.
2. Whatever germs Madelyn picked up from daycare, she decided to share with the rest of us and we all took turns being sick the past few weeks.
3. I celebrated 28 years of life. After a certain age, birthdays stop being exciting. I was at the tail end of a really bad cold this year and we had drill the following day, so I spent my birthday with my family eating pizza, drinking wine & snacking on birthday cake. It was perfect.
4. I ventured down to Chicago with my husband and mom and we ran The Hot Chocolate 5k. It was my first run postpartum and it felt really good. I ran with my mom whose pace is just a tad slower than mine-but I wasn’t trying to set any PR with this little race. My only goal was to have fun-which I did!
5. I’ve had a not so great few weeks of tracking my weekly weight watchers points. The good news is I haven’t gained any weight. Bad news? I haven’t lost weight either. Another blogger pointed out to me that MyFitnessPal DOES take into account breastfeeding so I may be switching back to that because A-it’s free and B-I had success with it before I got pregnant.
6. I found an “in studio” barre class to take in the Milwaukee area. I liked it, but I want to try another class during the week before I give a full review.
7. Hubs and I spent the night in Chicago this weekend for some much needed husband/wife time. My mom kept Madelyn for us while we wined and dined in the Windy city. It was hard leaving her behind but I had peace of mind knowing she was at home and in good hands. We found a good price on hotwire.com and stayed in a really nice hotel located right off of Michigan Ave.
Larry took me on a little shopping spree and out to dinner at RPM Italian. I’m a HUGE fan of Giuliana & Bill so I was super excited to try out their new restaurant. Like every other Lettuce Entertain You restaurant, it did not disappoint. The food was awesome, the service was spectacular, and the atmosphere was very Modern without being too pretentious. Their entrees were made to share which I like when you have a small group because then you get to try a variety of foods. It was a fun getting all dressed up to go out. It’s been a long time since I’ve done that and Chicago is the perfect city for it.
I’m off to browse through the Thanksgiving issue of the Food Network magazine. I’m hosting for the first time this year and I’m pretty excited/nervous! Wish me luck!
Pumpkin pie is a must-have at our Thanksgiving dinner. Larry loves it! I love mixing cranberry sauce and stuffing together the day after.
What’s your favorite/must have Thanksgiving entree?
Happy Friday! Is it me or did having a holiday in the middle of the week (and then having to return to work) make the week seem longer? I swear it felt like the beginning of the week yesterday. So nice to see you weekend Anyone have any fun plans? Tonight, I’m doing dinner with my mom & sis. Tomorrow, hubs and I are going to Summerfest-the world’s largest music festival held at the lakefront in Milwaukee. It’s been a few years since we’ve gone, so I’m looking forward to it.
The first picture at the top left corner is of my friend and me. She’s expecting a baby girl in the middle of September, so we are only a few weeks apart. It’s been fun having someone so close to you going through the same things as you. It’s also been helpful to call her up and say, “This is happening to me. You too? Ok good it must be normal!” apparently Motherhood Maternity must only have one cute bathing suit because she showed up at my house on wednesday with the same exact swim suit as me. This was not planned and she even bought hers online while I got mine in the store. Great minds DO think alike
The second picture is of some pre-anniversary dinner snackage. LC and I spent some time at the pool, came back and had some snacks while he filled us up two delicious steaks and asparagus. The only thing I was responsible for was the baked sweet potato and snacks. We got the spreadable cheese from door county. It’s cheddar with port wine and cherry…very good! The strawberries were left behind from my mom who stayed at our place to watch Oliver.
The beautiful sunset picture was taken on our last night in Door County. We ate a restaurant by the water and this was our view. It was breathtaking. Hubs said he could retire up there…definitely a change of pace from Chicago, which is where he was planning a few months ago
The big salad at the bottom was taken at today’s lunch. Some of the girls and I went out to lunch today at Sven’s Cafe in Bayview. This was my first time here and I loved it! Any lunch place that offers gluten free bread options is a friend of mine. My salad had goat cheese, walnuts, tomatoes, grilled chicken, craisins, and grapes. Perfect summertime lunch.
So far, this year’s summer has been pretty great. We’ve been pretty busy but it’s all been so fun. It’s flying by though which makes me realize that baby will be here before we know it…the perfect ending to our summer
Enjoy your weekend!!
We took vows in front of our family, friends and God to love each other through sickness & health, good times and bad.
After it was over, we celebrated with our awesome bridal party and I savored every moment of that day.
And then, we danced the night away
And ended the night with fireworks
Happy one year anniversary to my best friend, companion and wonderful husband. Who no matter what kind of day I’ve had always makes me realize how lucky I am. Who can manage to put a smile on my face even when I might be upset with you. Happy anniversary to the man who encourages me to chase after my dreams and supports my decisions 100%. It’s been one hell of a crazy year and I wouldn’t want to share the experience with anyone else.
Has a whole new meaning these days I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. I actually went into work for a few hours on Saturday to earn some comp time for when the baby’s born. Hubs works nights and when he comes home on Saturday mornings at 6am, I’m wide awake so I figured I’d just go into work for a few hours and get some stuff done. Afterward, I went to the South Shore farmer’s market with my mom and bought some beets, kale, pea pods and shared some kettle corn with my mom. LC and I went to the pool later the day, but our pool workout was cut short due to scattered showers :-/ So I came back home and did my prenatal Bar Method DVD instead. I’ve been doing this DVD throughout my pregnancy, but not consistently (they recommend 3-5 times a week). I NEED to bring this into a regular workout rotation now, because today is the first day I woke up and didn’t have extreme lower back pain after a night of sleep and I think the pool and bar method had something to do with that.
Today, I started our day off with blueberry waffles with a little help from Better Batter. Of all the gluten-free pancake mixes I’ve tried, I like this one the best so far. All you have to do is add water or milk (I used rice milk) and an egg. They were very good and very light and fluffy.
After breakfast, hubs and I met up with my sister and her friend down at the lakefront for the Festival of the Arts. It’s a big arts festival that’s put on every summer at the Milwaukee Art Museum. Most of it is under tents so that if it rains, the art won’t get ruined. Of all the years I’ve lived in Milwaukee, I’ve never made it to this festival until today. We got there expect to pay admission, but were surprised to find out that it’s free for military and families. The art exhibit on display right now at the museum is Posters of Paris, so there was a huge sand sculpture in front of the festival honoring that theme.
We walked around for a few hours admiring the art pieces that we couldn’t afford and enjoyed the day. After we had seen enough, hubs and I headed back home and went straight to the pool since our visit yesterday was cut short. it was hoppin’ with people today. We went for a little swim and then went back to our chairs to lay out in the sun. We must have both been super tired, because before I knew it, I was waking from a nap. It felt amazing to sleep out in the sun
In baby news, I found out that an old college friend is expecting a baby in December! So that makes what seems like a million babies born this year…when really it’s 10 including myself. Craziness. I thought it just seemed like the whole world is pregnant because I am and maybe I’m noticing it more, but everyone really is pregnant! I’ll be back tomorrow with a 30 week baby update!